Fri, 31 May 2019
Fri, 24 May 2019
Your inner thoughts can have a serious impact on your state of mind. If you see the world through a darkened lens, that negative way of thinking can quickly become a way of life.
When I tell people that I used to be the queen of negativity, they find it hard to believe. I’ve since adopted a more positive outlook on life which I talk about in episode 261 of the podcast, My Personal Seven-Year Transformation.
Nowadays, thinking positively comes easy to me. I like to think about negative thoughts as weeds in our mind. Weeds that need to be pulled out from the roots. If the garden of your mind has become overgrown with persistent weeds that you can’t clear, it’s time to tackle the root of the problem.
When I gave myself the quest to declutter my negative thoughts, I did three things. First, I realized how negative I was. Second, I replaced anything negative in my life with a positive difference. And finally, I eliminated all the ways that negativity was coming into my life.
In this episode, I reveal the steps you can take to overcome your negative mindset and start living a more positive and happy life.
Ready to say goodbye to negative thoughts?
In this week's podcast, I cover these 3 points:
1. Be honest with yourself
2. Replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts
3. Eliminate the negativity
I hope that these tips help you to declutter your negative thoughts so that you can start living a happier life with a positive outlook.
The more I press into this, the more I truly believe that we are in control of our thoughts and feelings. You can literally design any future you can imagine.
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Fri, 17 May 2019
Whenever spring hits, do you feel like you’re in a mad rush to get everything organized?
I know I do. I’ve often talked about the fact that I like to divide my year into three trimesters. Each one is carefully planned and, although it starts out completely organized, it ends in a chaotic whirlwind.
If you feel like you’re caught in an enormous tornado of tasks, not unlike the one from The Wizard of Oz, I want to help you step out of the chaos.
Focusing on what’s important and finding more planning time to eliminate some of the to-dos from your list will help you lead a more peaceful life.
In this episode, I reveal why you need an admin day. An entire day where you can go through your Sunday Basket and knock tasks off your list in one epic swoop.
Why You Need An Admin Or Errand Day
If you’re anything like me, you’ll discover a lot of administrative tasks when you go through your Sunday Basket. Things like forms that need to be scanned, scheduling doctor’s appointments, emails that need your attention, and so on.
The only problem is that a lot of these things can’t be done on a Sunday. The doctor’s office is closed, so you can’t call up to make an appointment. Before you know it, you’ve got a stack of administrative tasks or errands you need to do on a different day other than Sunday.
This is why you need to assign an administrative or errand day (or both!).
An errand day is when you take a full day to do your errands. You’re probably in the car going from one place to the next. An administrative day is when you’re at home (probably in front of the computer) and you’re plowing through things that can’t be done on Sunday.
If you’re new to Organize 365, you’re likely wondering why I talk about Sunday’s so much. Well, it’s because I have this thing called The Sunday Basket System. This is where you can defer all your ideas, mail, paper, forms, and to-dos into a pretty box that sits on your kitchen counter.
Each Sunday, you systematically go through the basket. To find out more about the Sunday Basket and how it can help corral all your kitchen counter papers and to-dos, click here.
Getting Organized In Each Trimester
On the Sunday before the start of each trimester, I go through my Sunday Basket as normal. I pay the bills, update my calendar, and all the rest. But there will also be an exorbitant list of things that I can’t get done on Sunday. I need a full workday for these things. And you might, too.
If you work nine to five for somebody else, finding the time during the week for these things can be tricky. But, it’s totally worth it to take a vacation day to do this. You can get a lot done with just one day off work.
So, the next time you do your Sunday Basket at the busiest times of the year, I want you to do something slightly different. Instead of putting everything that can wait until next Sunday, keep everything in front of you in a pile.
You’ll probably have a lot of index cards and papers you’ve repeatedly put back into the Sunday Basket and that’s okay. In previous podcasts, we talked about eliminating such pockets altogether in what I like to call Sunday Basket 3.0.
We also talked about decluttering obligations out of your Sunday Basket, and now we’re going to get into clearing all of the things you’ve been putting off time and time again.
Creating Your "Brain Dump" List
To help organize your time, I suggest making two lists. One for all the errands you need to get done and another for all the administrative tasks list. Or, you can combine the two.
So over on the errand list, you might have things like buy the end of year teacher gift, post that parcel to your mother in law, and things like that. The administrative list will be home to tasks like changing your passwords, replying to emails, making phone calls, and so on.
Make the biggest list you possibly can. Next, start crossing things off that you really don’t want or need to do. Then, grab a pencil (yes, we’re going old school for this one) and write down how long each task is going to take to complete.
When you’ve got that done, add up all that time to figure out how long you’ll need to complete the entire list. If it’s going to take you five hours, you’ll need to set five hours aside during the week to get those things done.
You might find that some things will take time and money that you just don’t have or want to invest in right now. That’s okay. Just cross it off your list.
Now that you have your lists cut down, it’s time to prioritize the tasks on the list in order. That way, you know what’s the most important things that need to get done compared to the things at the bottom of the list that you can probably do later.
You’ll end up with a concrete list or plan that you can follow on your admin or errand day.
Give it a try! Go through your Sunday Basket, do a big brain dump, and make a list of everything you want to get done. Then, set an admin or errand day and work like a trooper to get everything on that list done.
If you decide to have your own errand or administrative day, I’d love to hear how you got on! Follow me on Instagram and join the Facebook group for more great organizing tips. Don’t forget to share your photos with me by tagging me @organize365 or using #organize365!
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Fri, 10 May 2019
When our life gets unorganized, we tend to blame outside sources such as our spouse, our lack of money, not having enough time, and so on. But the truth is that your cluttered life (and home) has nothing to do with any of that. Those are just the things we like to think are holding us back. What’s really holding us back from living a more organized life is having a plan to achieve that life.
If you’ve tried to get organized in the past and failed time and time again, you’re in the right place. Today's podcast is designed to help get you organized and decluttered once and for all.
Before we dig into the good stuff, I need you to download this fun worksheet to follow along with the podcast.
We have ALL been unorganized at some point in our lives... even me.
Before I turned 40 back in 2012, I reached the most unorganized stage of my life. My home was so cluttered, it was tearing at the seams. My "epiphany" moment hit me on a random afternoon when I came home with a few bags of groceries and realized I had nowhere to put anything that I bought.
The fridge was packed and some of the things in there were way past their expiration dates. The cupboards were the same. But the madness wasn’t confined to my kitchen. Oh no. The clutter rampage had spread throughout my entire home. Every drawer was a junk drawer.
So, I sat down and made a list of every single space that needed to be organized and I spent the next 100 days organizing. I needed to regain control of my house and my life. It wasn’t easy, but I got there, and now I want to help you do the same.
Sometimes life just gets moving too fast and we literally get run over. Unfortunately, it is not a matter of if this will happen, it is a matter of WHEN. And when it does, it takes a herculean effort to get back up and get organized again.
Many of you ask me... "How do you know what I am thinking or what my house looks like?" Well, because we have all been there.
I know you feel like no one has ever ended up with their house as disorganized as yours, but we ALL have.
And after analyzing when and why this happens, I have actually determined that there are some key seasons in your life where almost everyone will feel like you do today...
In the podcast today, I unpack...
1. What’s your why.
2. What season of life are you in.
3. Understanding the Cycle of Organization.
And why we can get organized in one phase of life and everything seems to fall apart as you move from one phase to the next.
Now is The Best Time to Get Organized :)
Don't roll your eyes at me!
You know you are itching to clean out the garage, wash everything in sight, and declutter!
And you will... for a weekend. And then you will fall back into your daily routines and stop your organizational efforts.
It is not you. It is totally normal!
But do you want ordinary? Or are you ready for EXTRAORDINARY?
Living an organized and productive life is extraordinary!
The 100 Day Home Organization Program is your plan to move from an ordinary reactive life to an extraordinarily productive life.
Sign up! We start on Monday!
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Fri, 3 May 2019
I received an email the other day and it honestly had me in tears. It was from a listener of the podcast who reached out to thank me for being so open and honest about the struggles of motherhood in episode 261, "My Personal Seven-Year Transformation."
She also talked about her own challenges that she faces on a daily basis as a mother of three boys, one of whom was born with a very rare, life-threatening disease.
As you can imagine, she is not your everyday mother. What many of you find normal, she does not.
You ARE The Mother That Your Children Need
The subject line of this email read, “All I ever wanted to be was a mom.”
When I first read that, I was immediately hooked. As many of you know if you’ve been listening to the podcast for a while, I shared the same dream when I was younger. I always wanted to be a mother and I knew I could relate to the sender almost immediately.
We all have an idea of who we will be as a mother. But, more often than not, that vision never comes into view.
I am keenly aware many of you have never been able to birth a child... like me. Which makes posts like these about parenting, or announcements about our Mother's Day coupons, hard to hear.
It is also why the 100 Day Home Organization Program doesn't organize kids, it organizes YOU... any woman in any size dwelling.
For me, when I found out I couldn’t get pregnant, I hit a roadblock and it almost floored me. But, I steered off that path and made a new path to motherhood. My own path. Adoption turned out to be my road to motherhood and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Motherhood Is Never What We Anticipate... Easy Or Hard
Let me share a few lines from her email:
“Our boys are not typical. Our oldest was born with a very rare disease and will most likely not make it to 18. Each time he gets a cold or any type of illness, it can cause brain damage. He has spent a good portion of his life in the hospital as we fight to give him the best chance he has.”
As you can imagine, not many mothers prepare themselves for such a heart-breaking and difficult roadblock. How can you prepare for something like that? You can’t.
It’s so easy to doubt your ability as a mother, but you ARE the mother your child needs you to be.
Motherhood might not look or feel the way you thought it would. But it doesn’t matter. This is your story as a mother, and you are the mother that your children need.
Parenting A Child With Additional Needs
Whether your child has learning or physical disabilities, your role as a mother becomes so much harder when faced with more than the everyday parenting challenges.
For me, the hardest part of mothering was stepping into and owning the mother my children needed me to be and not the mother that I thought I would be.
If you are struggling with the weight of your mothering right now, listen to this week's podcast.
Don't let society's expectation and what everyone else is doing change how you view your child, your relationship with your child, and what your child needs. You’ve got this and I'm right there behind you.
Happy Early Mother's Day! Still looking for a gift for your mom or what to ask for yourself?
We created Mother's Day coupons you and your family can use to give the perfect Organize 365 gift!
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